The Malay is courteous and self-effacing. It is good manners, not degrading - in fact its a mark of breeding. It is typical for him to stand aside and let someone pass - not just that, he inclines himself in seeming obeisance. Unfortunately what is merely good manners to us is wrongly interpreted by the rest of the world. Calling non-malay shopkeepers boss and tuan and tai lo etc. - more likely to be misinterpreted as a weakness to the eyes of non-malays.
They're not to blame. They don't know. They are not expected to conform. They have never understood his habit of giving way. Nor do they admire it and ever felt the need to copy it. But they obviously found it to their advantage. Privileged, in HIS tanah.
The constant restraint the Malay imposes on himself is unnatural - hence the withdrawing into himself and his race. I don't know how many times I've brought this up, and how many times my own people unbelievably supporting the opposite. Nevertheless, let's move on.
When spoken to those not of his kind, his opinions are expressed differently as to those of his flesh. Of course what's different is when it comes to something unpleasant or unpalatable. It is far better if his politeness and his abhorrence of unpleasantness is understood for what they really are. The conflict within himself is in itself dangerous. It is utterly embarrassing every time I've to come up with some sort of rebuttal to hinder us being called hinter fotze. Honestly, I've stopped. Because it is on all occasions true.
Full of cum. Spread some some of this in a bun.
